Edyta and Steve. One of the most touching weddings organised last year, alongside the most picturesque scenery.
How moving the ceremony was could be proved scientifically, since the marriage counsellor almost burst in tears, and it hadn’t been the first time I’d see this lady there conducting ceremonies to other most charming couples and she’d shed no tears. Even the translator was touched!
By the way, I recently read an article on ceremonial uniforms of the Scots (to all sceptics, drop me a line, I’ll send you the link). The article in detail described all the key elements of the Scottish outfit, such as the tartan, kilt and all the hard work to make those, as well as a badger sporran and the Scottish dagger worn in a sock. And as far as at the end of the last paragraph it was mentioned that women in Scotland have their own dress too, and it also has a name, but on the whole clothes don’t make the man, period.
Well, they do, enjoy the session!
Polish Weddings vs. Scottish Weddings
For those intrigued by Scottish wedding traditions, here are a few words about the differences between Polish and Scottish wedding customs.
Polish and Scottish wedding ceremonies and the surrounding traditions differ in many ways, from the course of the ceremony itself to family customs and the celebration that follows. These differences stem from the distinct cultures, histories, and customs that have developed over centuries in both countries.
Wedding Ceremony
In Poland, a wedding can be either religious or civil, and often both types of ceremonies take place on the same day. A religious wedding, particularly in the Catholic tradition, is a solemn event with numerous traditional elements, such as the exchange of rings, marriage vows, and the blessing of the parents. The civil ceremony, which is shorter and more formal, takes place at the registry office and involves the exchange of vows and signing of the marriage certificate.
In Scotland, weddings can be religious, civil, or humanist, with humanist ceremonies being particularly popular and legally recognized. Scottish ceremonies often take place outdoors, in gardens, castles, or on beaches, reflecting the tradition and beauty of the Scottish landscape. Scottish weddings frequently include unique elements such as the “handfasting” ritual, where the couple’s hands are bound with a ribbon or cord, symbolizing unity and commitment.
Attire
In Poland, the bride typically wears a white wedding dress, while the groom dons a classic suit. Traditionally, the bride’s attire is elegant and richly decorated, often featuring a long veil and train. In Poland, the groom rarely wears anything more unusual than a standard suit, although vintage or boho styles are becoming increasingly popular.
In Scotland, the groom often wears traditional national attire, which includes a kilt made of tartan—a fabric with a distinctive checkered pattern associated with specific clans. The Scottish bride may also incorporate traditional Scottish tartan into her outfit, such as a sash draped over her shoulder. Groomsmen often wear kilts as well, adding a unique character to the ceremony.
Traditions and Customs
In Poland, pre-wedding traditions include “bramy,” where neighbors or friends create obstacles on the way to the church, which the groom must overcome, usually by bribing the organizers. Another tradition is “oczepiny,” a set of games during the reception that symbolically mark the bride’s transition to married life. The wedding reception itself is a crucial element, typically lasting all night and often into the early morning, with dancing, feasting, and toasts.
In Scotland, popular pre-wedding customs include the “stag do” for the groom and the “hen do” for the bride, which are often filled with fun activities and can last for several days. After the wedding, Scottish receptions often begin with the traditional ceilidh dance, which is lively and involves all the guests. A well-known Scottish tradition is also the singing of “Auld Lang Syne” at the end of the wedding, symbolizing farewells and new beginnings.
Though weddings in both Poland and Scotland are exceptional and joyous events that celebrate love and union, they differ in many cultural aspects, from ceremonies and attire to traditions and the way they are celebrated. Each country has its own unique customs that give weddings and receptions a distinctive character and deep meaning, making them unforgettable for the couple and their loved ones.
